It is a well known fact that I am a worrywart. This is not
to say that I am a negative person, quite the contrary I am a very positive
person, just with a tendency to worry sometimes. My Doctor (who is so much more
than a Doctor) often tells me about the importance of learning to trust. Trust
in the universe, trust in other people, trust in myself, trust that everything
is exactly as it is supposed to be. It’s a very big, and extremely important life
lesson. Especially for a worrywart!
This last week I have been caring for my husband after he
had some rather serious eye surgery (a Pterygium removal and graft). It has
been the perfect situation to put this trust lesson into practice. Trusting
that the surgery would go to plan, trusting that his recovery would be swift
and smooth, and trusting that he can handle the enormous pain that is
unavoidable when such a sensitive part of the body has been operated on. And test
it did.
I found the 4 hour wait while he was in surgery enormously
uncomfortable. I have spent the last week
wishing that I had a magic wand to wave his pain away. And I flipped out (just
a little bit) when it looked like there might possibly have been an infection
starting on the edges of the graft (just for the record, so did he).
So what really did happen this last week? The surgery went
beautifully, the specialist is very pleased with his progress, the “infection”
turned out to be absolutely nothing to worry about and my brave Hubby has
mostly slept off the pain with a bit of help from some drugs, acupuncture and
the odd glass of wine.
So what is the moral of the story? Worrying never achieves
anything! My very wise Doctor’s words are a universal truth, much the same as
this week’s quote.
Everything, really is
as it should be.
Wishing you all a positive
and worry free week! J
P.S. – if you would like to know more about Pterygiums, and
how not to end up with one, some information on prevention can be found here http://bit.ly/118dQ4R
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